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on: Jan 9th, 2009, 5:19pm |
| Started by AllMyBees | Post by Andrea - Mum to Angel Alfie |
Hi Staci
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this.
I had three children before I lost my Alfie and it is hard when people keep saying, oh well, at least you have the others, like that is going to make you feel any better about just losing one.
It is hard, I feel for you so much.
If you want to talk at any time, leave a post and I will get it, I check in quite a few times a day, I will be here to listen.
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on: Jan 9th, 2009, 5:11pm |
| Started by AllMyBees | Post by AllMyBees |
My name is Staci. My husband and I just lost our son on 1-6-09. He was our fifth child and I was 25 weeks pregnant. I really had no idea it was going to be this hard. I know we are blessed to have 4 children to help us heal, but the pain is so intense it is hard to imagine ever getting over this.
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on: Jan 6th, 2009, 01:55am |
| Started by RichardEngland | Post by Andrea - Mum to Angel Alfie |
Hello again Richard
I am so sorry that this has stayed with you for so long as strongly as it has.
Of course you will always grieve for and miss your little Stephanie, it's only natural for you to do so. You know how I have always seen it since it happened to me?
I have always thought that you don't ever get over it, they say time heals and it does to a certain extent, but I don't think you ever get over it, I think that you just seem to find your own way to deal with it. I think it is always there but eventually, you learn how is the best way to deal with it for you. That's what happened for me anyway.
I think that my way came through talking about him as much as I could and involving him in everything that I did, I was lucky, I managed to have quite a few photos etc, that's one of the things I think that time has done, attitudes have changed somewhat over the last few years, I feel so much for people such as yourself who lost a long time ago and didn't have the resources or help to collect up so many memories with the short time that you have.
Building the website I think also has been helpful, It made sure that I was constantly looking at him, talking about him and it became part of every day life. I think it would have been much more difficult if I had maybe lived alone or didn't have something like the site to keep him being at the front of my thoguhts so much, I wouldn't be talking about him and seeing him all of the time, it may have been very different for me if I hadn't have started the site when I did.
I am so glad that you are finally finding an outlet for yourslef, even if it just starts here, it has to start somewhere doesn't it? I'm just sorry it is just so quiet here at the moment, it may have been good for you to be able to share your thoughts with others too to get differing opinions on things.
My hubby may call on here at some point, he will know exactly where you are coming from, he still has days where it hits him really hard. I am sure if he calls on soon he will also leave a message for you.
Have a good day Richard
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on: Jan 5th, 2009, 5:20pm |
| Started by RichardEngland | Post by RichardEngland |
Hi Andrea
I wish there had been someone as brave as you two, to have created something like this 21 years ago, then maybe i might not have made a mess of my life living in the past as i still do today, unfortunatly i cant let the demons rest, they are there in my head daily, i think you are an angel yourself to have gone through what you did and then create this support for others, i for one wont drift away as it seems like yesterday my stephanie was taken from me x
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on: Jan 5th, 2009, 5:11pm |
| Started by RichardEngland | Post by Andrea - Mum to Angel Alfie |
Hello Richard,
It's good to see you here.
Sorry I haven't been by here for a couple of days to see your message, I have had a busy few days as you know and my IE has been playing up so I have had trouble with a lot of web stuff.
To be honest, the message boards have been a little quiet lately.
Most of the people that used to come on regularly have kinda moved on now, they came by all the time when they needed to talk and then when they were coping with things better and got back into everyday life, everyone seems to drift back into the day to day.
I can't begrudge people that can I? I wish there was no reason to have this forum or any forum like it but sadly that isn't going to happen any time soon, the best I can do is be here for when anyone may need it.
Glad you called by.
Call in whenever you wish,
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on: Jan 2nd, 2009, 09:30am |
| Started by RichardEngland | Post by RichardEngland |
Hi just like to say hi, just joined lost my Angel Stephanie Jan 19 1987, have gone it alone as it destroyed my life, after 22yrs i still cant talk and bottle it all up, finding this hard but need to start somewhere, so hi to you all
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on: Aug 8th, 2008, 6:09pm |
| Started by dazandshaz | Post by Andrea - Mum to Angel Alfie |
Aww, will be lovely to see them.
So glad everything has fallen into place for you.
It will be so exciting for Keiron to be a big brother again, how lovely of him to be so grown up and understanding about the babies, that's so sweet.
love,
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on: Aug 8th, 2008, 5:37pm |
| Started by dazandshaz | Post by dazandshaz |
Hi Andrea! Yes we are 'over the moon!'
I would just like to say thanks for all your support through what has been a really torrid year. Through all the highs and lows, this has got to be the icing on the cake.
We know that Joseph will be looking down on his new brothers and smiling. Also his other brother Kieron is over the moon too!
We have sat Kieron down and explained that his new brothers will need lots of love and attention, and that he won't be left out....especially with the nappy changing bit! He says that he understands, and everyone has spoilt him too since the twins' arrival, so he's not complaining.....
Anway, thanks again...and I'll post some piccies soon!
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